With Veterans Day coming next Wednesday, many of us will pause to honor people who were willing to give their lives for others. Jesus spoke about that kind of love, and then He lived it.
One simple fact
Jesus said these words at the Last Supper, on the night before His crucifixion. John's Gospel places the long farewell talk of chapters 13 to 17 "just before the Passover Festival," when "Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world" (John 13:1, NIV). Within hours He was arrested in the garden across the Kidron Valley (John 18:1-3).
In His own words
"My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends. You are my friends if you do what I command."
John 15:12-14 (NIV on Bible Gateway)
Notice the order. Jesus doesn't just praise sacrifice in general. He calls His disciples "friends" and then goes out to die for them. Paul later points out how far beyond human love this reaches: "Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous person... But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us" (Romans 5:7-8).
Foreshadowed in the Old Testament
Israel's Scriptures already held pictures of this love. Prince Jonathan "became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself," then stripped off his own robe, sword, and bow and gave them to David, the friend who would take the throne that should have been Jonathan's (1 Samuel 18:1-4). And Isaiah foretold a Servant who would give far more than a robe: "He was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities... and by his wounds we are healed" (Isaiah 53:5). At the cross, the friend who gives everything and the Servant who is pierced become one Person.
A historical reference: the crucified man of Jerusalem
In 1968, in a Jewish burial cave at Giv'at ha-Mivtar in northeast Jerusalem, excavators found an ossuary (bone box) inscribed with the name Yehohanan. Inside was a heel bone still pierced by an iron nail about 17 to 18 cm long. The nail had bent on a hard knot in the wood, so the executioners could not pull it out. It is one of the very few pieces of physical evidence for Roman crucifixion in the land and era of Jesus, and the ossuary is displayed at the Israel Museum. Read the excavator Vassilios Tzaferis's account at the Biblical Archaeology Society, and a later re-examination of the bones from the Associates for Biblical Research. The Jewish historian Josephus also describes Romans nailing Jews to crosses in Jerusalem (Jewish War 2.308).
That single nail is a sober reminder that "lay down one's life" was not a figure of speech. Jesus knew exactly what kind of death waited for Him when He spoke these words.
A witness: "Jesus died for me on a cross"
NDERF (the Near Death Experience Research Foundation) publishes first-person accounts in the witnesses' own words. A woman named Frances W reports that in June 1989 her drink was spiked at a dance and her heart stopped. She describes rising above her body, seeing her father crying at her bedside, and racing through a tunnel toward a light where she "was filled with an indescribable love and peace." She reports a life review in which she "could feel their feelings" of the people she had treated well or badly, and says God spoke to her and told her that her purpose on earth was not finished.
Asked afterward about her faith, she wrote that it became a "relationship with God and belief in Jesus Christ and died for me on a cross for my sins." Her summary: "Today I can say absolutely God is real, Jesus is real, and love is all that matters!" Read her full account: Frances W NDE 2245 on NDERF. (Presented as the witness reported it.)
Living it this week
Most of us will never be asked to die for a friend. But Jesus' command, "Love each other as I have loved you," reaches into ordinary days: giving up our own way, our time, or our comfort for someone else. As we honor those who served, we can also thank the One who laid down His life for friends who did not yet love Him back.
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